Psychology Today: Why Do People Choose Polyamory?
Deborah Anapol, Ph.D, has published this excerpt from her book, Polyamory in the 21st Century in the Love Without Limits blog on the Psychology Today website. It’s a great introduction to some of the...
View ArticleOveranalysing (a.k.a. Too Much Time on My Hands)
Last weekend I had a great date with a new fella. He is geeky and smart and sexy and all those things I like in a guy (if he reads this, I hope he’s not embarrassed). We had tons in common, plus,...
View ArticleIn which I ask myself “Why?”
I mentioned in my last post that I’d been questioning whether or not being polyamorous was worth it. I came back with the answer ‘Yes’ but didn’t really explain why. I did a bit of brainstorming about...
View ArticleMy Rape Story and Why I’ll Never Go to Philadelphia
A few days ago, my friend put up a story on FaceBook about her sexual assault experience. It was pretty harrowing, but also quite familiar. Stories about rape are both extremely personal while at the...
View ArticleSafer Sex Conversations: Not that difficult
“So, do you want to hear my safer sex speech?” “…ok.” “Great! Here’s my speech. The last time I was tested was [_____], and I was tested for [_____] and [____]. I tested negative/positive/was treated...
View ArticlePolyamory Burnout
The last 12 months have been intense. I went through a breakup, that nearly broke me, then was in two relationships that ended within a month of each other. After that, I swore off ‘dating’ anyone...
View ArticleThat Time I Got Friendzoned
It’s no secret that I hate the whole “Nice Guy” thing. I’m a big hater of the idea that women have this supposed “Friend Zone” or “Friend Ladder” and once you’re there, there’s no escaping. There is so...
View ArticleDear PolyMomma: Why is she settling for the rest when she can have the best?
I have recently become aware that my humble little blog has become somewhat more popular and respected than I expected. Another blogger even referred to me as a ‘big name’ in poly blogs, much to my...
View ArticleHow do adult relationships work, anyway?
This is a question that came up for me today after I engaged a lad on OkCupid in some ill-advised discussion. Normally, I just delete any messages from someone with less than 90% match percentage if...
View ArticleProtected: Eventually: A Story of Lies and More Lies
There is no excerpt because this is a protected post.
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